Are Brandan and Mary still together from 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way?
Status: Married.
Yes, Brandan and Mary are still together after having their first baby, despite rumors of a split—and a weirdly public Instagram fight that was streamed live to their followers. Mary accused Brandan of pushing her. He claimed he did it because she attempted to break his PS5. “She on live cuz she feel unsafe,” a fan wrote during the live stream. The same day, Mary posted several Instagram stories to suggest she was splitting up with Brandan. Reddit user /feathersofnorth shared screenshots of multiple stories that Mary shared with white text upon a black background. The first one said, “Brandans not good enough. Wish I found better.”
But they still both follow each other on Instagram and he posted posing with Mary in mid-November 2023, celebrating the holidays.
Brandan and Mary reached a few relationship milestones throughout the season. On the episode that aired on October 2: engagement. But both of them admitted it wasn’t great timing. “I know that we’re not ready yet because we’re still struggling and I’m still really stressing so bad,” Mary said in a confessional. “So I’m just saying yes because I need to and I don’t want him to be hurt or anything, so I just say yes.”
In another revelation, Mary revealed that she was pregnant and in a teaser for another episode, Mary complained that Brandan isn’t helping her around the house since she found out she was expecting. “Since I found out that I was pregnant, I’m doing all the chores and he’ll like wake up, at like 12 or 1, playing video games all the time. I really wish he would help.”
Brandan and Mary have never met in person, yet they spend every waking (and sleeping) hour on video calls with each other. “Mary wants to know what I’m doing. She’s very clingy,” Brandan explained in a teaser for season five. “I really like that because I’m kind of the same way. We have similar past histories.”
This arguably obsessive behavior has led their friends and families to oppose the relationship, but not being together is no longer an option for these two. Both have made extraordinary sacrifices to prove their love to one another and Brandan has invested everything he has into building a home for them in the Philippines.
“You guys have built a foundation on jealousy and distrust, it’s pretty rocky,” Brandan’s mom told him in another scene. “You can’t see me ‘cause I live in a house full of females, you can’t spend time with your siblings because she is a female and she has friends possibly, that might come over.” Obviously, there are a few obstacles for Brandan and Mary to overcome with family.
And it seems like they powered through it! In Touch Weekly reported that the two married in July 2023. The outlet also reported that the two are expecting. Mary’s mother Angela posted (and subsequently deleted) a meme on Instagram that could hint that her daughter’s pregnant.
“In ten years’ time, I’ll have a 21 and 16-year-old, carry on,” the meme read. Angela reposted the photo, captioning the meme, “I’ll have a 34, 26 & 23-year-old AND a 10-year-old grandbaby!!! Hot damn!!” A person claiming to be Brendan’s cousin seemingly confirmed the pregnancy. “Angela and Brandan are my cousins and I cannot wait to see how this plays out when it comes to Mary,” she wrote. In another response, she added, “And they’re having a baby, Mary is actually a very sweet person.”




















