“Teaspoons is great for touching each other all over, but you may need to use a couple of towels to cushion those knees,” says Nelson. “For female couples, the woman on top needs to tilt her body forward and arch her back so her butt is facing up to line up with the strap-on better, or simply to get the most out of her partner fingering her clit.”
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“This is an ideal position for G-spot stimulation, as the penis or strap-on will hit that area like a bullseye,” says Nelson. “If you’re on the bottom, you can squeeze your legs together for added tightness, which will bring maximum pleasure and a possible blended orgasm.”
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“This is a great position to stimulate nipples, touch and finger the receiver, while still maintaining closeness to kiss and caress,” says Nelson. “For female couples, you can use a strap-on and the lover on the bottom can use it to rub the clitoris of the woman on top before sliding it in for penetration,” says Nelson.
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“The partner on top can use their feet to push off and move their hips in a circular motion to get the most out of this position,” says Nelson. “It’s a good one for holding, kissing and embracing each other. Because the position is equally pleasurable for both partners, it’s a great one to end with—and possibly will result in orgasm at the same time.”
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“This position is one of deep penetration, so in order to control how deep you want the sensation to go, face-down partners can modify by putting your hands on the kneeling partner’s knees to stabilize and rock back and forth,” says Nelson. “Open your legs wider for added depth and pleasure, or you can self-stimulate at the same time. Female couples can try it with a strap-on—the possibilities are endless.”
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“This is a position where there’s very deep penetration for the woman on top,” says Nelson. “It can be a great one for G-spot stimulation if you tilt your pelvis forward, but you need to use your quadriceps to regulate the depth of penetration.”
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“Before penetration—which can be tricky but is doable from this angle—try adding this to your foreplay routine to get both of you turned on,” says Nelson. “Rub in a figure eight and grind your clitoris on his penis—or on your female partner’s clit—which will get you both lubricated to go right into lovemaking, with or without a strap-on.”
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“This one rates a 10 out of 10 in difficulty,” says Nelson. “It requires the woman on top to use the power in her legs to keep her balance and bounce up and down. It works best if the partner on the bottom can hold her at the waist for support, and she can manually stimulate for added sensation.”
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