“The standing partner will be doing most of the work in this position, but being in a pool will definitely ease some of that burden,” says Nelson.
Pro tip: Squeeze your vaginal walls tight, and do kegel exercises while your lover is thrusting. This will add tightness and pleasure for both parties.
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“This position is all about communication and letting your lover know how you like to be pleasured,” says Nelson.
“If the top partner is on the edge of a kitchen counter, for instance, you can modify by putting your legs over his or her shoulder while being eaten out. You can also put your hand on his or her head and grind your pelvis to orgasm.”
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“You can modify this one by dropping down to your knees if your arms get tired and spreading your legs wider for maximum satisfaction,” says Nelson. “If it’s not a totally spontaneous romp, it helps to bring towels or blankets for under your knees.”
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“This is a great position for people who have a hard time orgasming, as it gives you the chance to have a blended clitoral vaginal orgasm,” says Nelson. “Make sure you’re using extra water-based lubricant, as you need more thrusting at this angle.
Ideally, the partner on the bottom can self-pleasure, while being penetrated and bring his or herself to orgasm. The sensation of coming while thrusting is amazing and has the potential to give you a G-spot orgasm, as well as a clitoral one.”
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“Since this position can hit your G-spot at a different angle, this could be extremely pleasurable for the receiver and super-tight-feeling for male lovers,” says Nelson.
“If there’s a height difference, you’ll have to work to align your genitals or strap on for maximum pleasure. Lesbian couples can use the tip of the strap-on to stimulate the clitoris to make her orgasm, and go back and forth between penetration and clitoral stimulation.”
Pro tip: Receivers, arch your back and get on your tippy toes, or put a foot up on the edge of the tub, shower, or on an ottoman or edge of the bed.
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“Whether you’re in an airplane bathroom or somewhere else that’s enclosed, staying balanced and lining up your genitals is the most important challenge of this position,” says Nelson. “It’s great for stimulating the vulva and clitoris.”
Pro tips: Hold onto your partner’s butt, or around his or her neck. You can also try this position in a pair of high heels, so it’s easier to bounce up and down.
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“This position, even in close quarters, like a car, results in deep penetration for both partners, especially if you’re working together to grind in unison,” says Nelson.
“Both should hold on and move their hips in a circular motion. The partner on top can grab the back of the car seat and bounce up and down to control the degree of penetration and bring herself to orgasm.”
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“Prison guard provides some of the deepest levels of penetration, perfect for G-spotting,” says Nelson. “If you want less intensity, you can bring your legs closer together. For more intensity, spread them farther apart and bend at the knee, while arching your back and putting your butt in the air.”
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