What happened to Stanford in …And Just Like That?
What happened to Stanford in And Just Like That? Stanford Blatch makes appearances in the first three episodes of And Just Like That. In episode four of the Sex and the City reboot, Stanford is written out as he’s heading to Tokyo, Japan to help a TikTok influencer named Ashley who’s “huge in Asia.” Carrie learns this when she’s sent a letter from Stanford that reads, “By the time you read this, I’ll be in Tokyo. I couldn’t tell you—not without crying. And you have had enough crying.” Carrie subsequently receives a knock at her door from Anthony Marantino, Stanford’s husband. Anthony reveals to Carrie that Stanford also sent him a letter asking for a divorce. “I don’t get it. We were so happy,” he says.
In episode 1 of the second season, Stanford has a special shoutout. Carrie wears a kimono in which Smoke compliment. “Oh, thank you. My friend Stanford sent it to me from Japan,” she replied.
Showrunner and executive producer Michael Patrick King told Variety that Stanford was supposed to appear in all ten episodes of the first season. “Before I knew that Willie was sick and couldn’t complete it, Stanford was going to have a midlife crisis,” he said. “Stanford’s character always had a borderline career as a manager, and we were like going to explore the fact that it wasn’t a real career. It was going to be Carrie and him, feeling the shifts. Anthony and him were probably going to have split anyway.”
King continued, “Then we would keep both of them in, and everybody would be relieved that they were divorced because it was not pleasant for anybody. But there was a series of really fun, flirty, hilarious confidante scenes with Carrie that I loved. That old, old, very specific chemistry that Carrie and Stanford have, which is based totally on the uniqueness of Willie and Sarah Jessica’s history.”
He then expanded on the way that they wrote him out of the story. “Life and death is one thing in fiction: When it’s real, it’s not funny or cute. I didn’t want to even flirt narratively with cute business about where he is. I knew the audience would never invest in it, because they knew he was never coming back. It’s the most threadbare writing I’ve ever done just to move him along without much maneuvering, because it was just so sad. There was no way I could write myself out of that in any charming, cute way.”
He also confirmed to The New York Times in December 2021 that Stanford didn’t not die in the Sex and the City reboot. (He also confirmed that Samantha Jones also doesn’t die in And Just Like That after Kim Cattrall declined to return to the role.) “Nobody’s dead. Nobody,” King said. He explained that the writers chose not to kill off Stanford because it would have been inauthentic to the viewers. “Because it wasn’t charming,” he said. “And I knew that the audience would know.”


















