Who’s Tom Schwartz’s Girlfriend? The Truth About If He’s Actually Dating Jo After Vanderpump Rules

Sophia Skoro (2024 – present)

Tom Schwartz is currently linked to Sophia Skoro. The two were linked when he appeared in a TikTok video on her profile. He lip-synced audio of a woman asking, “Are you stupid?” Sophia captioned the post, “When men talk.” The two recently took a vacation to Hawaii where he took a picture of Sophia on Waikiki.

He clarified if he’s dating around on Watch What Happens With Andy Cohen. “I would say I’m not not dating,” Tom said. “I’m hanging out, it’s new, it’s exciting.”

Jo Wenburg (2023 – 2024)

Tom Schwartz was linked to Jo Wenburg. Though they aren’t official (they don’t really know what to label their relationship), they have become a staple in season 11 of Vanderpump Rules.

“I was under the impression that, why we were here was to support Tom Sandoval,” Jo explains in a confessional when the group headed out to. “Single’s Night” in Hollywood. “And then, when we got here, [Schwartz] was interested in other women.” She spots Schwartz making out with another woman and immediately leaves. “I mean, what am I?” Jo says in a confessional. “Chopped liver, you know?”

“I know the truth and the truth is that we are still hooking up, we’ve said ‘I love you’ to each other,” she reveals in a confessional. “It bothers me that he doesn’t really want to share this relationship with his friends.” 

Jo confronts Schwartz about their relationship in a previous epsiode. Schwartz confesses that he doesn’t want a relationship with her. He claims that he just wants to have sex with her, share emotionally intimate moments and told her he loves her.

Schwartz said that their current relationship is “significantly watered down version of what it used to be.” He continued, “I think she’s hanging out with somebody, I’m hanging out with somebody. We’re super cool. There’s definitely no bad blood or hard feelings. I don’t regret it. It was super fun. I think we really enriched each other’s lives for that stretch.”

Katie Flood (2023)

Tom Schwartz was reportedly linked to Winter House co-star Katie Flood in 2023. However, he put the rumors to rest on the “When Reality Hits with Jax and Brittany” podcast in June 2023, which was recorded after Winter House Season 3 finished filming. He said, “I’m not dating anyone. I don’t have a secret girlfriend that lives with me. I’m single and not ready to mingle,” he said.

Katie Maloney (2011 – 2022)

Tom Schwartz was married to Katie Maloney from 2016 to 2022, and was in a relationship with her since 2011. They revealed to Bravo that they were initially set up with different people on a date night, but plans changed. “The very first night there was no spark,” Schwartz said. “But the second night I was introduced to her and given a little backstory, that’s when it clicked.”

The two made their first appearance on Vanderpump Rules in 2013. The two became engaged in 2015 and had an on-screen wedding officiated by none other than Lisa Vanderpump herself. Their relationship had a lot of rocky bumps from tough arguments, infidelity claims, and baby talks.

The former couple announced that they were separating in 2022. “After 12 years on an adventure through life together Tom and I are ending our marriage,” Maloney wrote on Instagram. “This ending is not met with resentment or animosity … We have a deep admiration for one another that will always remain and we cherish our friendship. Although we may be on different paths we will continue to love and support one another’s happiness.”

In his own post, Schwartz revealed that Katie had ended things for good. “Fully respect Katie’s decision and we’ve had healthy, productive conversations about it,” he wrote. “It would be far sadder if she decided to stay with me whilst not happy.” He added that through their ups and downs, they “had some of the most blissful, romantic, fun times humanly possible” during their time together. “I’m talking heaven on earth level joy.”

Maloney went on the We Met At Acme podcast to talk about the divorce. “I had been expressing my feelings … I was not getting my needs met,” the reality star said. “I was being hurt by some of the behavior, and I don’t think he understood or resonated or agreed.”