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Why Wasn’t Travis Kelce At Taylor Swift’s Birthday? The Real Reason

He was there in spirit though, as deliveries to her apartment would hint.
Taylor Swift, Travis Kelce Still Together
NEW YORK, NEW YORK - OCTOBER 15: Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce have dinner at Waverly Inn on October 15, 2023 in New York City. (Photo by Gotham/GC Images)
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She celebrated turning 34 with all of her best friends, but one person was noticeably absent. So why wasn’t Travis Kelce at Taylor Swift’s birthday? The Midnights songwriter stepped out with some of her best friends in New York on December 13, 2023, but the Kansas City tight end wasn’t in attendance.

In her Time 2023 Person of The Year profile, Swift spoke for the first time about her relationship. “This all started when Travis very adorably put me on blast on his podcast, which I thought was metal as hell,”  Taylor revealed, referring to when Travis revealed on his New Heights podcast over the summer that he tried to give singer his number via a friendship bracelet at her Eras Tour show in Kansas City. “We started hanging out right after that,” she added. “So we actually had a significant amount of time that no one knew, which I’m grateful for because we got to get to know each other.”

She also isn’t hiding anything in this relationship. “When you say a relationship is public, that means I’m going to see him do what he loves, we’re showing up for each other, other people are there and we don’t care,” she explained. “The opposite of that is you have to go to an extreme amount of effort to make sure no one knows that you’re seeing someone. And we’re just proud of each other.” As she celebrated another lap around the sun, everyone wanted to know why Travis Kelce wasn’t at Taylor Swift’s birthday.

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