Who’s Still Together From Farmer Wants a Wife Season 3? A Shocking Update to Matt, Colton, John & Jay’s Winners

Matt and Chelsi

Relationship status: Likely still together

Matt confirmed he and Chelsi were still together with an Instagram post after the Farmer Wants a Wife Season 3 finale, which included multiple photos of them throughout filming. “Never thought that view could get better,” he captioned the post. Chelsi, for her part, also seemed to confirm she and Matt were still together with her own Instagram post of him and her friends after filming ended. 

She also shared a message to fans after the finale, in which she revealed that she was in California, where Matt is from. (Matt’s hometown is Morrow Bay, California, while Chelsi is from Richardson, Texas.) “What a crazy ride, the trauma, laughs, cries, friendships, relationships, flights, 5 different states, and everything in between. Feels weird to be leaving the ‘bubble,’ have technology back, know the time/date, and be a normal human again,” she wrote. “I’m sad to leave California, but excited to get back to real life. Thanks for the encouragement friends and fam. This journey has taught me just how important your cicle is and how faithful our God is. It was an adventure of a lifetime and one I’ll never forget. Love you guys!”

Matt confirmed he and Chelsi were still together with an Instagram post after the Farmer Wants a Wife Season 3 finale, which included multiple photos of them throughout filming. “Never thought that view could get better,” he captioned the post. Chelsi, for her part, also seemed to confirm she and Matt were still together with her own Instagram post of him and her friends after filming ended. 

She also shared a message to fans after the finale, in which she revealed that she was in California, where Matt is from. (Matt’s hometown is Morrow Bay, California, while Chelsi is from Richardson, Texas.) “What a crazy ride, the trauma, laughs, cries, friendships, relationships, flights, 5 different states, and everything in between. Feels weird to be leaving the ‘bubble,’ have technology back, know the time/date, and be a normal human again,” she wrote. “I’m sad to leave California, but excited to get back to real life. Thanks for the encouragement friends and fam. This journey has taught me just how important your cicle is and how faithful our God is. It was an adventure of a lifetime and one I’ll never forget. Love you guys!”

John and Claire

Relationship status: Still together

John confirmed he and Claire were still together with an Instagram post after the Farmer Wants a Wife Season 3 finale. “What a ride, and couldn’t have asked for a better ending with an incredible girl,” he captioned a series of photos of him and Claire. The official Reality Club Fox Instagram account also seemed to confirm their relationship status by commenting, “TOO CUTE,” along with three heart eye emojis.

Claire, for her part, also confirmed she and John were still together with her own Instagram post after the finale. “Currently thanking my grandma for teaching me how to crochet ❤️ #farmerwantsawife,” she captioned a series of photos of her and John, including pictures of them together after filming ended. 

John and Claire also confirmed they were still together in an interview with Taste of Country where they gave an update to their relationship after filming ended. “I’m a Catholic guy, and I’m sure Claire understands that too,” John said. “That stuff takes a lot of time. We got to know each other over a month, so there is still a lot of time to see where this goes and enjoy each other’s company. That stuff is for down the line, we will hold off for now.” 

John and Claire also confirmed that they’re planning to take their relationship slow and not move in together just yet. John lives in St. Louis, Missouri, while Claire resides in Chicago, Illinoi—just four hours away by car. “We’ve been trying to stay on some sort of a schedule,” Claire said. “We thought it was going to be hard, [but] I think the hardest part is not being able to be out in public, especially in Chicago.” 

The two also told Taste of Country what it was like to be together for the first time off camera. “It was hard because we were kept apart the entire time and had no one-on-one time alone,” Claire said. “After the finale we were just released to each other, so that was weird!” 

“We just hung out, no cameras, talked about the show, talked about the choices,” John added. “Basically, just had a good time chatting without any pressure from the cameras.” Claire continued, “I think that’s why we’ve done as well as we have. We’re like, ‘Let’s just see where this goes, not put pressure on ourselves.’ We already had all that pressure, so let’s get to know each other off camera.” 

The couple also discussed what they’ve learned about each other since cameras went down. “When Claire’s bothered by something, she’ll talk with her hand,” John said. Claire added, “I had to get used to his intensity. Sometimes you seem like you’re yelling, but you’re 80 percent joking. I’m like, ‘Why are you yelling at me?’ and he’s like, ‘I’m not!'” 

Jay and Grace

Relationship status: Likely not together

While Jay and Grace haven’t confirmed their relationship status at the time of writing, it doesn’t seem like they’re still together. For one, Jay and Grace do not follow each other on Instagram—unlike other couples from Farmer Wants a Wife Season 3—which suggests that they aren’t on good terms. 

At the time of writing, Jay and Grace also haven’t shared any posts with each other on Instagram, which is another hint at their relationship status.  For the Farmer Wants a Wife Season 3 finale, Jay also shared several videos of him hosting a watch party at a local bar, which Grace didn’t seem to be at. 

It’s not surprising if Jay and Grace broke up. Jay is from Florence, Alabama, while Grace is from Ellensburg, Washington, so distance—a common reason most couples from reality TV dating shows split—could’ve affected their relationship. Still, Grace confirmed in a video on her Instagram Story before the finale that her feelings for Jay were real despite them meeting on reality TV.

“It’s not that serious in the beginning, and the vibes got a lot more serious, obviously, when it was the final two because [runner-up] Karina [Sabol] and I went from sharing every conversation and both of our experiences with Jay to trying to protect our peace and deciding to not talk about it anymore and put up that boundary with each other to protect our friendship,” Grace said. “That’s when it started to feel real and when it started to get real about creating a connection with someone who’s dating somebody else.” 

Colton and Zoe

Relationship status: Not together

It appears that Colton and Zoe are not together since he just debuted his new girlfriend on Instagram. He wrote in a caption of a video of a woman riding a horse, “My baby, she makes me feel like a king.” The woman, who was tagged as @cm.sport.horses wrote in a comment, “Love you.” Hendricks responded, “I love you.”

After the finale, Zoe seemed to confirm she and Colton were still together in an Instagram Story after the Farmer Wants a Wife Season 3 finale, in which she shared a series of photos of them together—including a shot of them kissing—after Colton chose her over his runner-up, Keeley Goldberg. “A beautiful ending to an unforgettable journey. Forever grateful for this mooment and everything it has taught me,” Zoe captioned the post. 

Colton and Zoe also both follow each other on Instagram, which is a good sign that they’re still together. Whether they stay together is to be determined. Colton lives in Mena, Arkansas, while Zoe is from Cape Coral, Florida, so distance—the main reason most couples break up from reality TV dating shows—could play a part in their relationship. Still, Zoe’s job as an ICU travel nurse means it could be easier for her to relocate to Arkansas than other contestants who have more roots planted in their hometowns. 

During the Farmer Wants a Wife Season 3 finale, Zoe confirmed that she was in love with Colton. “There’s also that excitement. I can just see us cooking every day, laughing at the little things like we have been and really enjoying like just our presence together,” she told the cameras. “I know I’m falling in love with someone when I just can’t wait to see them and I’m counting down the seconds to see him again,” she said. 

In an interview with In Touch Weekly in April 2025, Colton, who has a 3-year-old son, Souther, teased that his son was “super happy” with his final pick, who turned out to be Zoe. 

“He’s the most important thing in my life. You can pretty much change everything about your life except for your kids,” Colton said. “For me, I’m looking at more aspects than what’s on the surface level with these girls.” He continued of his ideal partner, “I want a partner who’s my best friend and is dedicated to our team winning. In terms of mother qualities … if my son’s being bad and she’s with him, I want his ass whooped because I want to raise good kids.”