Who’s Still Together From The Ultimatum Season 2?The Couples Left Will Shock You

Are Lisa and Brian Still Together From The Ultimatum Season 2?

Relationship status: Still together

Are Lisa and Brian still together from The Ultimatum Season 2? Jelisa “Lisa” Horne and Brian Okoye were one of two five original couples on Season 2 of The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On. Lisa, a 32-year-old vice president of clinical services, was the Ultimatum Giver, while Brian, a 29-year-old financial analyst was the Ultimatum Receiver.

Lisa and Brian were the only original couple on The Ultimatum Season 2 to not recouple with a new partner at The Choice. Lisa and Brian left The Ultimatum Season 2 in Episode 3 after Lisa learned she was pregnant and they decided to exit the experiment together, though Brian did not propose to Lisa and they did not get engaged. “I had expectations coming into this experience that is ultimately going to end with Brian getting down on one knee. You don’t just get married or get engaged just because you’re pregnant, but I would hope it makes him realize a little bit more that ‘you’re the woman I want to build a life with,’ so why am I also not the woman you want to put a ring on her finger,'” Lisa said in a confessional interview.

So are Lisa and Brian still together from The Ultimatum Season 2? The answer is yes. Lisa and Brian confirmed they were still together in an interview with People after The Ultimatum Season 2 premiered, in which they talked about how the experience strengthened their relationship. “It definitely brought us a lot more self-awareness in regards to [us] emotionally,” Lisa said. “It’s easy for him to notice when I’m triggered about something or when I’m upset about something. He takes those things very, very seriously now. And as well as me, I’ve noticed how I communicate with him a lot more easily now, and I’m a lot more observant to him and being communicable about what he wants and things of that nature.”

Brian, for his part, told People that The Ultimatum ended up helping his and Lisa’s relationship because it “put a lot on the front street” in terms of their issues. “We were super vulnerable, and obviously for the world to see and for us to see as well. It definitely opened our minds up more about what we were experiencing,” he said. “And it made us more willing to actually work on those things.”

He continued, “And as parents, I think it gives us a little bit more of the softness that we need. Even though a lot of people don’t see that, but we have a really great friendship and just relationship as a whole.”

Lisa and Brian also looked back on their massive fight over Brian flirting with other cast members before they left The Ultimatum Season 2. “I am not going to lie, I was distraught,” she said. “We’re in this experiment. In my mind, I’m like, ‘He’s out here dating other women and I’m pregnant.’ I didn’t know what to feel or how to think in that moment, but my reassurance came after talking to him.”

Brian also told People about what it was like to re-watch his and Lisa’s fight. “Honestly, to watch it again, it’s like you get a little nervous because you don’t remember exactly how it played out, but at the same time, you just wish things went differently,” he said. “For me, I think the biggest thing was we were able to grow through it. I know people in relationships go through things all the time, but it’s all about how you withstand the obstacles that you’re faced with.”

Despite the drama during their short time on The Ultimatum Season 2, Lisa told People that she had “no regrets” about how her and Brian’s experience on the series.”I don’t have any regrets in regards to how it worked out, especially with the pregnancy because that has been an amazing journey in itself,” Lisa said. “Of course, I have regrets of how certain things unfolded … just my reaction in regards to the cocktail party and how that unfolded. Obviously that is the only regret I have.”

She continued, “But in regards to our time on the show and how I had to leave the show, no regrets on that because it really gave me time to have a healthy pregnancy, which is what I needed.”

Brian added, “I wouldn’t say I have any regrets of leaving. I think the decision that I made, and we made, together was the best decision for us, but I do wish that we were able to stay because I think that we could have learned a lot more about ourselves within that time, as well as what we were aiming for in terms of our relationship.”

Lisa and Brian also confirmed they were still together in an interview with Bustle after the premiere of The Ultimatum Season 2, in which they looked back at their pregnancy. “Finding out the news that she was pregnant, we had to make a decision quick as to whether or not we wanted to proceed,” Brian said. “I went into father mode instantly to say, ‘Hey, it just doesn’t make sense for us to continue the experience.’ We wanted to get as much out of it as possible — and it was unfortunate that we couldn’t finish it out — but I don’t regret it at all.”

Lisa added, “Once Brian found out, he was like, ‘Nothing else matters. I want to make sure your mental health is good, I want to make sure you’re good, I want to make sure our baby is good, let’s go. I want to go to the doctor like tomorrow to make sure everything is alright.’ And I agreed with him. So, that was his decision. He went into immediate protective mode.”

Lisa, who told Bustle that she doesn’t usually “clear up rumors,” also reacted to cast mate Alex Chapman claiming that she knew she was pregnant before filming on The Ultimatum Season 2 started. “People are going to say what they want to say, but it’s OK because we knew the truth,” she said. “I didn’t know [I was pregnant], so what anyone else had to say didn’t bother me. I know they’re good people. They’re not malicious.”

Before they confirmed they were still together, Brian and Lisa hinted at their relationship status on their social media. Both Brian and Lisa still follow each other on Instagram. Lisa also shared an Instagram post the day The Ultimatum Season 2 premiered of her and Brian on the show, which Brian reposted on his Instagram Story. “I put my heart on the line…was it worth it?? The Ultimatum: Marry or Move Season 2 is now on Netflix,” Lisa captioned the photo, which Brian reposted on his Instagram Story with the caption, “Yessir sis!” Brian also hinted that he and Lisa were still together when he reposted a friend’s Instagram Story of him and Lisa on The Ultimatum Season 2, in which the friend congratulated Lisa and Brian on the milestone in their relationship. “It’s timeeee! Congratulations @lisahorne_ & @brianxokoye,” the friend captioned the photo.

The Ultimatum Season 2 is believed to have filmed from September to November 2022 based on the social media hiatuses of the cast members. In November 2022, Brian shared an Instagram post in which he celebrated “two years of love and growth” with Lisa, which seemed to have confirmed they’re still together. “Tell me your vision and I’ll show it to you This past weekend was one for the books,” he wrote. “I celebrated two years of love & growth with @lisahorne_ and was fortunate to produce the finale of Red Bull’s HBCU Tour at NCCU. After months of planning of preparation we created a masterpiece.” Lisa commented, “Always so proud of you my baby” with a heart emoji, to which Brian responded, “my lady.”

Read Lisa and Brian’s about page on Netflix’s site ahead:

“Lisa and Brian aren’t exactly strangers to ultimatums. After six months of casual hookups, Lisa locked down their one-time situationship by making Brian choose once and for all between love and friendship. He decided to exclusively commit to Lisa and the two have been together for a year and half. Brian loves how Lisa pushes him to be the best version of himself, while it means the everything to Lisa to see her 10-year-old daughter bond with Brian.

Now, the couple has arrived at another crossroads, as they’re at odds over a timeline for marriage and starting a family together. Lisa is issuing Brian the ultimatum because “if he’s not ready to propose, then [she’s] ready to move on.” But Brian is hesitant to pop the question due to Lisa’s jealousy issues and her tendency to turn disagreements into explosive arguments. Unless Lisa and Brian can learn to communicate effectively, their future together remains in serious jeopardy.”

Are Ryann and James Still Together From The Ultimatum Season 2?

Relationship status: Still together

Are Ryann and James still together from The Ultimatum Season 2? Ryann McCracken and James Morris were one of five original couples on Season 2 of The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On. Ryann, a 24-year-old radiologic technologist, was the Ultimatum Giver, while James, a 24-year-old grad student and research assistant, was the Ultimatum Receiver.

At The Choice, Ryann and James both recoupled with new partners. Ryann recoupled with Treyvon “Trey” Brunson, whose original partner was Jeriah “Riah” Nelson, while James recoupled with Riah. Ryann and James reunited at The Changeover. While James’ relationship with Riah seemed to be over based on his feelings for Ryann and his issues around physical intimacy, Ryann still seemed to have feelings for Trey, as the two didn’t have a single fight while they were together. Ryann also follows Trey on Instagram, while James follows Riah, and vice versa. (Ryann also follows Riah, while James also follows Trey, and vice versa)

So are Ryann and James still together from The Ultimatum Season 2? The answer is yes. Ryann and James were one of four couples who got engaged in The Ultimatum Season 2 finale, along with Alex and Kat; Roxanne and Antonio; and Riah and Trey. They confirmed they were still together during The Ultimatum Season 2 reunion, where James revealed he proposed to Ryann a second time after filming ended in a “more intimate experience.” “It was more unexpected and natural. It took me by surprise,” she said.

Ryann and James also confirmed they were living together in her family’s house as “one big happy family.” “He’s always been an only child so him having to experience siblings and how annoying they are sometimes … it’s showing him how it’s going to be in the future when we have kids and a family. It’s a reality check. It’s going to be kind of chaotic sometimes,” she said. Ryan continued, “It’s been good for us.” Ryan added,  “I always knew it was Ryann. I’ve always known. The experience showed me what I needed to do to make it a reality.” Women’s Health also reported that Ryann and James had been sending each other Venmo requests since filming ended, which confirmed they were still together.

Before they confirmed they were still together, Ryann and James hinted at their relationship status on their social media. Both Ryann and James still follow each other on Instagram. Ryann also tagged James in an Instagram photo promoting The Ultimatum Season 2 in August 2023. The Ultimatum Season 2 is believed to have filmed from September to November 2022 based on the social media hiatuses of the cast members. In September 2022, James posted an Instagram photo in honor of Ryan’s 24th birthday. “Happy Birthday to my personal super woman 24 has never looked so good,” he wrote. Two years before that, in 2020, James shared another Instagram post in honor of his five-year anniversary with Ryann. “Words cannot express the amount of joy that this young woman has brought into my life. So, since I’m more of a numbers guy, maybe some numbers will. 5 years, 1825 days, 43,800 hours, 2,628,000, that is 157,680,000 (give or take 40,000 or 50,000 at the time of this post) seconds that I’ve been lucky enough to call this young woman mine. Infinity is not just a big number, it’s endless, immeasurable, and unstoppable,” he captioned the photo. “I love you Ryann Taylor McCracken and will continue to do so infinitely. I cannot to wait to spend this lifetime and an infinite number more with you.”

Though these posts were shared before The Ultimatum Season 2 started filming, they seemed to be clues that Ryann and James were still together given that he still had them up on his Instagram. James also still had a photo of him and Ryann as the icon for his TikTok profile. There are clues, however, that Ryann and James weren’t still together. In November 2022, Ryann shared an Instagram post with a series of photos of her with friends and family members for the holidays. Missing from the post was James. “Thankful for my people,” she captioned the post. While James wasn’t included in the post, it was likely that Ryan left him out on purpose to not spoil The Ultimatum Season 2.

Read Ryann and James’ about page on Netflix’s site ahead:

“After nearly seven years together, Ryann and James are proof that high school sweethearts can stand the test of time. The former prom queen and football player started dating at just 16 years old, so naturally growing up has come with some major growing pains. As adults, they’ve been plagued with communication and trust issues, which only worsened while James finished his education in another state.

Now, Ryann is giving James the ultimatum because after all this time she believes he “should know for sure” that she’s his forever partner. And if not, then Ryann doesn’t want to waste another minute. James, meanwhile, is intent on starting their lives as a married couple on stable ground. Before they walk down the aisle, he is hoping to first land a job secure enough to begin their next chapter on the right foot. But if Ryann doesn’t get a ring on her finger soon, their journey might be cut short.”

Are Riah and Trey Still Together From The Ultimatum Season 2?

Relationship status: Still together

Are Riah and Trey still together from The Ultimatum Season 2? Jeriah “Riah” Nelson and Treyvon “Trey” Brunson were two of five original couples on Season 2 of The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On. Riah, a 25-year-old managing server, was the Ultimatum Receiver, while Trey, a 29-year-old area manager at Paper Mill, was the Ultimatum Giver.

At The Choice, Riah and Trey both recoupled with new partners. Riah recoupled with James Morris, whose original partner was Ryann McCracken, while Trey recoupled with Ryann. Riah and Trey reunited at The Changeover. While Riah’s relationship with James seemed to be over based on their differences around physical intimacy, Trey seemed to have formed a connection with Ryann, as the two didn’t have a single argument during their time together. Trey also follows Ryann on Instagram, while Riah follows James, and vice versa. (Riah also follows Ryann, while Trey also follows James, and vice versa.)

So are Riah and Trey still together from The Ultimatum Season 2? The answer is yes. Riah and Trey were one of four couples who got engaged in The Ultimatum Season 2 finale, along with Alex and Kat; Ryann and James; and Roxanne and Antonio. They confirmed they were still together during The Ultimatum Season 2 reunion. “Right after got engaged we went back to our regular life. Things are good, but I think work, like our work schedules … real life hit us again. We’ve been working through that,” Trey said during the reunion.

Trey also told hosts Nick and Vanessa Lacehy that his and Ryan’s relationship was “night and day” from what it was before The Ultimatum. “We could never have these kind of conversations, it would always end ugly. Now we’re having those conversations on a regular basis,” he said.

Riah also confirmed that she “does” want to have kids in the future, which was a hot topic for her and Trey during The Ultimatum. She told Nick and Vanessa that her previous aprehension to having children was a “defense mechanism” that developed after she and Trey got pregnant but there was “no heartbeat.” “For me to protect myself, I always said I didn’t want to have kids,” she said. Trey added, “That was extremely rough, especially for her.”

Before they confirmed they were still together, Riah and Trey hinted at their relationship status on their social media. Both Riah and Trey still follow each other on Instagram. However, neither had tagged photos with the other since The Ultimatum Season 2 premiered. In August 2023, Riah posted an Instagram photo of a still of her and the cast at The Choice, in which she tagged almost every cast member except for Trey. “What was I THINKING” she captioned the post. Trey did, however, like an Instagram photo Riah posted in July 2023 of her celebrating her 25th birthday. Riah, for her part, didn’t like Trey’s Instagram photo of him in March 2023 celebrating his 29th birthday. Neither commented on each other’s birthday posts. Trey also liked Riah’s Instagram post announcing she was on The Ultimatum Season 2 in July 2023.

Read Riah and Trey’s about page on Netflix’s site ahead:

“Trey couldn’t believe his eyes when he first came across Riah’s dating profile, assuming that she must be a catfish. But Riah — and their love for one another — turned out to be the real deal, as they’ve now been together for two years. After initially dating long distance, Riah moved into Trey’s place, where their connection strengthened and the couple settled into a beautiful partnership.

But, as time has gone on, romance in their relationship has been seriously lacking because Riah feels Trey has been slacking on date nights. He, meanwhile, wants to measure Riah’s sky-high expectations, which he thinks have have been warped by social media. Now, Trey is giving Riah the ultimatum, as he’s eager to create a life just like his parents, who’ve been together for more than 30 years. But growing up, Riah has never “seen a happy healthy marriage,” so she can’t say with 100% certainty that a wedding — or a life with Trey — is in her future.”

Are Roxanne and Antonio Still Together From The Ultimatum Season 2?

Relationship status: Still together

Are Roxanne and Antonio still together from The Ultimatum Season 2? Roxanne Kaiser and Antonio Mattei were two of five original couples on Season 2 of The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On. Roxanne, a 31-year-old founder and CEO, was the Ultimatum Receiver, while Antonio, a 30-year-old freight broker, was the Ultimatum Giver.

At The Choice, Roxanne and Antonio both recoupled with new partners. Roxanne recoupled with Alex Chapman, whose original partner was Kat Shelton, while Antonio recoupled with Kat. Roxanne and Antonio reunited at The Changeover. Both Roxanne and Antonio seemed to be done with their trial marriages. Antonio’s relationship with Kat never seemed to become romantic due to his feelings for Roxanne, while Roxanne ended her relationship with Alex after he lied to her parents about opening the door for her and claimed to Alex that she didn’t respect him.

So are Roxanne and Antonio still together from The Ultimatum Season 2? The answer is yes. Roxanne and Antonio were one of four couples who got engaged in The Ultimatum Season 2 finale, along with Alex and Kat; Ryann and James; and Riah and Trey. They confirmed they were still together during The Ultimatum Season 2 reunion. “Since the proposal, it’s been an adjustment. Good and bad,” Roxanne said during the reunion. Roxanne and Antonio also confirmed they were still together in an interview with Today in August 2023 after The Ultimatum Season 2 reunion was released. “I’m still engaged. Hello, still engaged. Big, big deal for me!” Roxanne said, adding that she and Antonio hadn’t started wedding planning yet.

She continued, “Antonio opened a business a month ago. I’m still focused on my company. I’m taking baby steps towards the next phase of what happens after an engagement. I’m happy to do it. Antonio and I are growing together. I feel like we’re closer than ever, which is cool. Never thought it would happen.”

Antonio, for his part, told Today that he doubted Roxanne would accept his proposal. “I think the first words out of her mouth after I said, ‘Will you marry me?’ [were] ‘I just want you to be happy,’” he said. So I didn’t know what that meant, but I definitely thought that she was getting ready to say ‘no.’” A year after their engagement, Antonio told Today that his and Roxanne’s relationship “couldn’t be better.” “I’ve never been happier in my life. Put it that way,” Antonio said. “It’s really the happiest that I can ever remember myself being, ever. So things are good.”

Roxanne and Antonio also confirmed they were still together in an interview with Bustle. “Being engaged is huge for me,” Roxanne said. “I feel a different level of commitment to someone, which is dope. I love it, it’s cool. I still am shocked to be in this place, but I’m happy to be in this place.”

Though they were in a good place, Roxanne told Bustle that she was “still working through” her reservations about getting engage to Antonio in couple’s therapy. “It’s a new place, and I think sometimes therapy or guidance can help anyone with uncertainty or new things in their life that are uncomfortable and weird,” she said. “And we do that to make sure we’re on the right path for what we want in the future for both of us. It’s a lot to take in, and the next stage now is obviously a wedding. I need Ultimatum: The Wedding because I don’t know, are we ever going to do it? I will get there. It’s just going to take a little bit of time.”

As far as their wedding, Roxanne told Bustle that she wants to “soak in being engaged,” though she has thought about a “dress that might be dope.” “Roxanne and I are finally able to explore what it’s like to not worry about finances as much and really just enjoy each other and get to know what it’s like to be in a relationship with each other where all of our needs are met,” Antonio said. “It’s been a great experience since we got back. I’ve never been more sure about something in my life. I’ve got this confidence that I haven’t had before and this feeling that I’ve made the right decision and I’m on the right path. It’s very empowering, and I’ve kind of hit a new stride. So life’s pretty good.”

Before they confirmed they were still together, Roxanne and Antonio hinted at their relationship status on their social media. Both Roxanne and Antonio still follow each other on Instagram. However, neither had liked any of each other’s recent Instagram posts. It’s believed that The Ultimatum Season 2 filmed from September 2022 to December 2022. In September 2022, Antonio shared an Instagram photo of Roxanne at a restaurant opening. “Spent the weekend at my favorite rooftop @palosanto_atl— CONGRATS ON THE NEW SPOT @lalox_rivera. We’ll be back to see you soon,” he captioned the post, to which Roxanne commented, “Who is that chick [cheesing].” Though the post was shared before The Ultimatum Season 2 started filming, it seemed to be a clue that Roxanne and Antonio were still together given that he still had the photo up on his Instagram. Antonio also had several other Instagram posts still up of him and Roxanne, including a photo of them at a wedding in March 2022 and another of them on New Year’s 2022. In an Instagram post announcing he was on The Ultimatum Season 2 in August 2023, Antonio referred to Roxanne as his girlfriend, which hinted that he didn’t get engaged in the finale, though that ended up being a misdirection to not spoil the season. “When you sign up for the ultimatum to propose to your girlfriend but then the talent starts walking in…. $@#%!… tune in NOW to see what happens!” he captioned the post.

Read Roxanne and Antonio’s about page on Netflix’s site ahead:

“From the moment that Antonio laid eyes on Roxanne, he knew that she was wife material. She felt a strong connection as well, but the two wouldn’t get together until years later. Once they eventually reconnected over social media, it was clear to both of them that they were meant for each other. Now they’ve been together — on and off — for the last four years and life has only gotten sweeter.”

“For Antonio, marriage is the natural next step in their relationship, but the last thing on career-focused Roxanne’s mind is planning a wedding. She first wants her forever partner to match her income and business ambition and Antonio just hasn’t met her expectations. While he admires her entrepreneurial spirit, Antonio wishes that she’d pay him more attention, particularly when it comes to demonstrating her affection. Now Antonio is giving Roxanne the ultimatum because he believes ‘that kind of pressure needs to be applied’ for her to seriously consider accepting a proposal.”

Are Alex and Kat Still Together From The Ultimatum Season 2?

Relationship status: Still together

Are Alex and Kat still together from The Ultimatum Season 2? Alex Chapman and Kat Shelton were two of five original couples on Season 2 of The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On. Alex, a 32-year-old software salesman, was the Ultimatum Receiver, while Kat, a 28-year-old travel nurse, was the Ultimatum Giver.

At the Choice, Alex and Kat both recoupled with new partners. Alex recoupled with Roxanne Kaiser, whose original partner was Antonio Mattei, while Kat recoupled with Antonio. Alex and Kat reunited at The Changeover. Both Alex and Kat seemed to be done with their trial marriages. Kat’s relationship with Antonio never seemed to become romantic, while Alex’s relationship with Roxanne ended after he lied to her parents about opening the door for him and claimed to Antonio that Roxanne didn’t respect him.

So are Alex and Kat still together from The Ultimatum Season 2? The answer is yes. Alex and Kat were one of four couples who got engaged in The Ultimatum Season 2 finale, along with Roxanne and Antonio; Ryann and James; and Riah and Trey. They confirmed they were still together during The Ultimatum Season 2 reunion, where they also revealed their wedding date. “The plan is May 10, next year,” Alex told co-hosts Nick and Vanessa Lachey. He also showed his and Kat’s “save the date” magnets, which they hadn’t sent out yet. “It feels really different than dating,” Kat said. “Actually, Alex is, I think now, more ready to settle down than I am.”

Kat also confirmed that she and Alex were thinking about buying a house and starting a family. “Yeah, I’m excited. It feels a (little like) baby fever,” Alex said, explaining explained that his brother also recently had a child, which allowed him to be an uncle for the first time. When Alex’s ex, Roxanne, noted that he had also talked about children with her, Kat defended Alex and explained that Alex had talked to her about kids before The Ultimatum but it wasn’t a serious converstion until after filming ended. “We had talked about all of that before,” Kat said. “But it’s a difference of talking about it and being, like, this is happening. I’m ready for this, like, right now versus a joke of, ‘Let’s have 12 kids.’” 

In an interview with Us Weekly in August 2023, Antonio, who was Roxanne’s original partner, explained why he thought Alex and Roxanne slept together during their trial marriage. “He was speaking into existence all my deepest insecurities. I mean, Roxanne is just this crazy successful woman, and my history has not been the same,” Antonio said of when Alex claimed that Roxanne told him that she thought Antonio was weak. “I’ve always kind of grappled with that. Like, ‘God, does she really want to be with me? Is she settling for me? What is it?’ And then for him to say [that], it hurt. It really hurt.”

He continued, “So Alex heard all the ugly things about my relationship with Roxanne. So for him to have that opinion, I get it. … I just don’t know that I would’ve felt that I had the same authority he did to speak on the situation.”

Antonio also explained that he thought Alex and Roxanne slept together after Alex told him that he should sleep in the same bed as Kat during their trial marriage. “My first thought [when Alex said that] was that Roxanne and him slept together, and so he wanted Kat to sleep with me so she couldn’t be mad at him,” Antonio said. “That’s really where I initially started out and pretty much the opinion that I held until, you know, [I] found out that that wasn’t the case.”

Before they confirmed they were still together, Alex and Kat hinted at their relationship status on their social media. Both Alex and Kat still follow each other on Instagram. The Ultimatum Season 2 is believed to have filmed from September 2022 to December 2022 based on the social media hiatuses of the cast members. Both Alex and Kat still have photos from before they filmed The Ultimatum Season 2 still up on their Instagrams. In June 2022, Kat posted an Instagram photo of her and Alex on a hike with the caption, “NC summers.” She also posted a photo the month before in May 2022 of them at a wedding. Alex, for his part, posted an Instagram photo of him and Kat on a hike with friends in September 2022. “Trippy weekend,” he captioned the post. Though these posts were shared before The Ultimatum Season 2 started filming, they seemed to be clues that Alex and Kat were still together given that they still had them up on their Instagrams.

Read Alex and Kat’s about page on Netflix’s site ahead:

“Consider Kat and Alex a dating app success story, but will they go from Hinge to hitched? After he relentlessly pursued her online, the two hit it off IRL and eventually chose to make things official. When Kat decided to take her nursing career on the road, Alex joined her on the journey. Since then, the two have leaned into a sense of adventure, traveling around the country together and embracing life’s many twists and turns. 

While the couple is aligned over their love of outdoor activities, they couldn’t be more different when it comes to communication. Kat is conflict avoidant, preferring to defer to Alex instead of making her own decisions. He, meanwhile, wants to be challenged by a partner who feels like his equal and isn’t afraid to speak their mind. Kat’s heard his concerns, so for once she’s putting her foot down about marriage and giving Alex the ultimatum. Kat ‘can’t imagine her life without’ Alex, but his ‘logical and practical’ mindset has kept him from taking the plunge.”