Here’s Where the Exes from Worst Ex Ever Are Now & Frankly, We’re Afraid to Go On Another Date

Where is Benjamin Foster now?

In the first episode of Worst Ex Ever, titled “Dating the Devil”, we meet Justine and Benjamin Foster, the latter of whom had a violet history of attacking women. “[He] slapped me,” Amber, another survivor, said in the series. “A pretty hard open-hand slap. He was in a blind rage, you could see it in his eyes.” 

After kidnapping and brutally torturing one victim, Foster eluded authorities for a week. “I’ve been in law enforcement for 32 years,” Lt. Jeff Hattersley of the Grants Pass Police Department told the New York Times, “and this is one of the most heinous, terrible cases I’ve ever seen.”

Foster used dating apps to either find more victims or force someone to help him elude capture for a week before authorities tracked him down. He shot himself in the head in February 2023. He didn’t die instantly, however. According to another report from The New York Times, he was “still breathing when officers were able to get to him,” but once he arrived at a medical facility, was pronounced dead “almost immediately.”

Where is Jerry Ramrattan now?

Sumasar and Jerry Ramrattan’s story appears in the second episode of Worst Ex Ever. He lied about his personal life, and when she decided to break things off, he went on a mission to destroy her. Sumasar was even arrested for crimes she didn’t commit, including impersonating a police officer. Eventually, it came out that he’d framed her for it.

In November 2011, Jerry was found guilty of more than 10 charges, including rape, perjury and conspiracy. He was sentenced to a maximum of 32 years in prison. “Now that this is over, I can start my life again,” Sumasar said in an interview, per the New York Times. “Last year, I spent Thanksgiving inside a jail cell. Jerry told so many lies, and I was imprisoned because authorities had decided to believe him. But I am not bitter. The truth won out in the end.”

Jerry is currently incarcerated in the Eastern NY Correctional Facility, a maximum-security prison for male offenders. He’s eligible for parole in December 2031.

Where are Rosa Hill and Mei Li now?

After her ex-husband Eric Hill gained full custody of their daughter, Rosa came up with a sinister plan dubbed Operation Custody—that entailed killing Eric’s grandmother, Selma “Sally” Hill. They succeeded in slaying the 91-year-old, realizing she was dead “after I used the stun gun on her a few times and she didn’t move,” per a local news report at the time.

In 2011, Rosa and her mother were both convicted of first-degree murder, as well as the attempted murder of Eric, according to CBS News. They were sentenced to 25 years to life behind bars. They are currently serving sentences at the Central California Women’s Facility, a female-only state prison located in Chowchilla—they’re eligible for parole in January 2029.

Where are Kevin Lewis, Jerradon Phelps, and Alexis Hale now?

The final episode of Worst Ex Ever focuses on Amanda and her marriage to Kevin Lewis. They seemingly had the perfect marriage, but his controlling nature became more apparent as their relationship went on. When she filed for divorce, he told her he would kill her if she didn’t grant him custody of the kids. He was serious about that threat.

He hired his cousin Jerradon Phelps and a young woman named Alexis Hale, who was 17 at the time, to kill Amanda, but his assassins killed the wrong person—the babysitter Alisha who was the one who answered the door.

In 2020, Phelps was sentenced to 31 years in prison after pleading guilty to the murder of Alisha. Hale was found guilty of the same charge and was given 15 years in prison. Kevin was eventually convicted of first-degree murder in November 2021 and sentenced to life behind bars without the possibility of parole.

In May 2024, Kevin appealed his conviction unsuccessfully, exhausting all other appeals. He’s currently serving time in the Washington State Penitentiary. Phelps is being held at the Clallam Bay Corrections Center. Because Hale was underage at the time of the crime, was reported to be serving time at the Echo Glen Children’s Center in Washington State but we’re not sure where she is now.